Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.
Margaret Mead (1901 - 1978) was the first major anthropologist to study the fine details of child-rearing practices and learning theory within social groups. Based on her observations, she proposed that children learned through "imprinting."
Her work through anthropological studies concluded that there is no evidence of the existence of universal human motivations (Instincts) (see Psychological Aspects of Biodanza).
Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret_Mead
Biography: http://www.interculturalstudies.org/Mead/biography.html
Quotes: http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/m/margaret_mead.html
Interview with Stewart Brand, Conversation with Gregory Bateson and Margaret Mead, - For God's Sake,
Margaret
, CoEvolutionary Quarterly, 1976, Issue no. 10, pp 32-44, 1976: http://www.oikos.org/forgod.htm
Margaret Mead, The Silent Revolution - Creative Man in Contemporary Society
, 1962, Audio:
http://sunsite.berkeley.edu/VideoTest/mead1.ram,
http://sunsite.berkeley.edu/VideoTest/mead2.ram